Read about one extravert’s insights into working with introverts and appreciating the differences in their work style and contributions.
I am an extrovert however I have always been fascinated with introverts. I enjoy their calm, deliberate approach to things. All too often my extraverted self wants them to make decisions more quickly and contribute ideas and suggestions on the fly, but then I remember how incredible the results are if I allow them time to process what is before them.
Introverts will carefully consider the information in front of them and give an insightful response if they have been given the time to process the information and collect their thoughts. They are the note takers in the meetings and often have unique perspectives and ideas since they have been absorbing all of what has been said and assimilated it into their decision making.
Introverts are the calm ones. They can handle difficult clients and situations without an external display of frustration fireworks. An introvert’s calm demeanour can keep the peace in an office. Introverts balance the high energy, in-your-face extroverted energy with a serene, contemplative energy.
Introverts are often sharp witted and highly intelligent. It can sometimes be shocking to an extrovert to see their sense of humour surface but it is usually far more intelligent humour than the extravert who tends to use physical or shock value comedy to make someone laugh.
Over the years, I’ve gradually taken the time to appreciate the different approach to work that an introvert takes and have been highly rewarded with the insights gained. Introverts have helped me see that sometimes gathering all the facts and reflecting before making a decision can be very wise. They are the kings and queens of responding and not reacting to stressful situations.
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