Dating a Coworker

Are you attracted to a coworker? Are you debating whether to initiate a romantic relationship at work? Make sure the pros outweigh the cons.

Finding a person who is attractive, shares a similar lifestyle and has similar interests can be tough. One common solution is to date someone you work with. While the chances are high that you’ll share some interests if you work in the same industry, it can also mean complications to the relationship simply because you share the same employer.

Be sure to check your policy and procedures manual to ensure that your company permits coworker dating. You may need to disclose your relationship to your HR department and your boss. The disclosure may mean that one of you is transferred to a different department or branch.

Pros

1. You can see more of each other
2. You can car pool
3. Your partner can empathize when you complain about a work situation
4. You can eat lunch together
5. You can reduce the cost of benefits if plans are the same
6. You can both be part of a solution to a big corporate problem

Cons

1. If you break-up, it could be awkward to see them daily
2. Business decisions that affect your partner are harder to make
3. Your personal life isn’t as private
4. You may be violating company policy and could be fired
5. If you work in the same office, you may find that you spend too much time together
6. It lessen your chances for a promotion

If you work in an industry that makes it tough to have a social life such as working in a remote location or in a job that requires a lot of overtime, it can be tempting to look at coworkers as potential romantic partners. If you don’t see yourself staying at the company for long, it may be a good alternative to meeting someone outside of work.